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Should I talk to someone? My husband thinks I should talk to someone about my being molested when I was a kid. He says it is affecting our sex life. <\/strong><\/p>\n I don\u2019t understand why I should dredge up the past.<\/p>\n I am a mother now, I have moved on in my life.<\/p>\n Why relive something so painful?<\/p>\n Sincerely, Moved-On<\/p>\n Your husband is offering great advice. Although you may have \u201cmoved-on\u201d the effects of abuse are long-lasting and can play out in subtle ways.<\/strong><\/p>\n Clearly, dealing with abuse is painful, but it may also be life-changing.<\/strong><\/p>\n Find a professional therapist that you are comfortable with; this may not be the first person you see, but make an honest effort to find someone who is a good match for you.<\/p>\n It is a risk worth taking.<\/p>\n Angelica<\/p>\nThe Past is the Past<\/h3>\n
I have moved on<\/h3>\n
Dear Moved-On:<\/h1>\n
Your husband may notice things that you are not connecting to your abuse.<\/h2>\n
Dealing with the past could clear a path for the present and the future.<\/h3>\n